Am I So Non-Threatening?
Last night I finally got a chance to get over to Julie, Paul, and Dusty's new apartment to see them. It was good to spend some time with people that are completely familiar. We drank a few beers at their apartment and then headed to the Wooden Nickel. That's right, the Wooden Nickel. They got some new owners and they cleaned it up quite a bit. No more bras on the ceiling. *sighs mournfully* We had a few more beers there ($1 drafts baby!) and Paul and I played some songs on their quality jukebox. Bar time crept up on pretty fast so I headed home to find a bunch of drunk people in my apartment. That was cool though, I was still in the party mood. Lee and Eric played guitar duets for a couple hours. Damn my roommates and their buddies like to stay up late. I finally gave up at like 5 and went to bed like the old lady that I'm quickly becoming. I woke up to a raging hangover that has convinced me that drinking needs to be something that happens only on extremely special occasions.
Amy and I went to see Stepford Wives tonight. I don't recommend it.
For those of you that also read Ashly's blog, you will have read her rant concerning the subject of girls being leary of her spending time with their boyfriends in a strictly friend capacity and getting angry about it. I also have quite a few guy friends but I've never had one of their girlfriends dislike me or get mad at me for it. That I know of anyway. What do you suppose this means? Am I so non-threatening? While I'm heartened to know that girls trust me, it's also a little disconcerting. Am I seen as just one of the guys? There is a ton of irony in this, as most of you well know. Granted, I am not a girly girl. Actually, I don't even come close.
Okay, enough of that for tonight. I don't seem to be in a very good mood. Maybe it's because I've spent the vast majority of the day vomiting. Who knows?
3 Comments:
I have a response to your question, thought it may not make much sense. Usually, as far as I have seen, when you are friends with the guy, you are also friends with the girl. Therefore, yes, you are non-threatening to these relationships. But I think you make many-a-girlfriend nervous when they don't know you. On another note--when are you visiting again?
Well, I don't think you should consider yourself completely non-threatening, I'm sure there's at least a couple of girls out there that don't trust you. I'm not sure if that was supposed to be a compliment or not. Anyways, here's hoping your mood gets better.
Well, I am sure that there are probably a few girls that don't trust their guys around you, you're great, and fun to be around... not to mention not bad looking ;)maybe you're just being overlooked for some little reason...
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